"So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets." - Matthew 7:12
One thing this passage does not say is that you should do to others what they do to you. It might seem at a rough glance that this is exactly what is being said, but not if we look closely.
An example: A friend hits you in the face, knocking you down, and steals your wallet. Should you do the same to him before he can hit you? Apart from the obvious problem of not knowing what others are going to do to you in advance, it is easy to see that this is how violence escalates and society crumbles. What if everyone started harming others and taking what they wanted because they expected others to do the same to them?
The Golden rule says to do to others what you want others to do to you. If you want gifts given to you then you should give to others first. If you want others to speak nicely to you, you should be aware of your words toward them first, ensuring that you speak positively.
If you were ignorant of the truth, would you want others to share with you the good news of everlasting life through the Lord Jesus Christ? Well then...